There are two friends - Ram & Krishna. Ram asks what do you want to have? Krishna says anything you like. Ram orders Samosa and Krishna gets to eat samosa. Krishna asks where do we go tomorrow? Ram answers, Goa. They go to Goa. Krishna does not have any choices. While Ram has. So, Krishna goes where Ram wants and eats what Ram wants.
You have to decide what are your choices. Because if you do not have choices, you will not do what you want, but rather what others want. If you do not decide your goal, then others will decide what you should do. If you do things on your own, you will go places. Have your choices. You should not be adamant about it because you need to care for others too. But if you allow to choose every time, you will be led to where others take you. You should divide your world into professional, personal, etc. At some places, you take the lead. At other places, sit back and enjoy. If somebody meets you and asks are you doing anything? If you aren't, you will be asked to do something. So before someone tells you to do something, choose a definite topic, goal and get going at it. If you choose for your customer, it will be more friendly deal. But if you let customer choose the terms, it will be in his favor. Try to put in things as per your choice, lest others have their own. If you do not put up your choice, you will definitely end up with his choice. For example, payment terms. If you put immediate, if other has no issue you get immediate payment. If they have issue, they will discuss. But if you do not put any payment terms, you will be told for 90 days payment, and you may have to agree.
Each day you get up and have to make choices. You have to choose whether to be positive or be negative. If you choose to be positive, world will give you positives. If you react to a situation negatively, you will get negatives.
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