There are setbacks. Everybody has it. Ask the most successful man and he will tell what struggle he has faced. The important part which separates rest from the best is how the successful people bounce back from the setbacks. Setback is the most important time. Many a careers break due to a setback they suffer either professionally or personally. Some people are just not ready to accept the setback and it is very difficult to come back to normal life. For some, the guilt or the fear or the grief that they faced is very hard to overcome and it changes their life in more ways than one.
This setbacks don't let us think the way we should. It would cloud your mind with darkness and you would not be able to think positively. Instead of thinking about solutions, you will think about the situation and will be under tension, under guilt or under fear. To think ahead, you have to first accept the thing that has happened.
It is for this reason that it is very important to accept the setback. When you face a setback - it might be due to any problem - the first message that you have to give to your mind is of accepting the setback. If the customer on whom you depend has been giving you tough time, give the message to your mind that - Yes, I accept that I am having a tough time because so and so customer is upset. I accept that there has been a situation which is not good. Once your mind accepts the situation, half of your tension will erase immediately. You will feel lighter. This step is very important, As this happens, you need to give message to your mind that 'All is Well'. Everything will be alright. While giving this message, you should be confident yourself that All is Well. Once your mind has accepted this, you will get the solution earlier than later.
If you can practice the step of acceptance by lightly tapping on your chest or just between neck and chest, you will get better results.
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