We all face problems, big or small. Problem is a part of life as is happiness and success. In fact, greater the problems that you solve, you become more strong and your confidence grows that much faster. But do we like problems? If there are 100 people sitting in a room and this question is asked, may be 95 % people will say that they do not like problems. Instead, they will move around problem until matters come to a head. The problems are countered only when there is some deadline and you cannot move beyond it.
The reason for this is fear. Note the line - 'Fear of Problem is Greater than the Problem itself'. I will give some examples. Have you gone to a doctor to take that injection? Do you remember how you feared the pricking of the needle? Do you remember, how fearful it was when you found that you would be beaten by a stick. Often, the fear of beaten by a stick is so much that it will anytime beat the actual pain after the stick heats you. Similarly, the thought of death is so fearful, that we forget to live the remaining life itself.
The idea to find a solution to a problem is to take the problem head on. If you think about the problem only then there may not be any solution. But if you brainstorm about the possibilities of the solution, then you may find one even if that may not be the best, it will certainly limit the extent of loss due to the problem. You have to find the least loss scenario.
For that to happen, you have to first really define the problem and think of the possible consequences. After all, you may find that the problem is not a problem at all. You may immediately find a solution or possible solutions to it. You should also stop thinking about the problem, once it is gone. Also, always remember the lessons learned during the problem, so you may clean up the root of the problem itself.
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